The "Nice Guy" Approach

Last Sunday my roommate and I were enjoying chinese buffet at a restaurant located a short distance from campus, when we began discussing the various ways to pursue babes.  He admitted that he had always treated girls poorly, and that he did this because for whatever reason they seemed to like it.  He argued that in fact the worse you treat a girl in terms of blowing her off, being rude, or flat out ignoring her, the more she will want you.  I mean, this is not a revolutionary idea by any stretch of the imagination, and this method has been touched upon in previous posts, but it was reassuring to know that Alex and I weren't the only dicks out there.  My roommate went to an elite prep school which I think was actually strangely beneficial to his whole strategy.  Rich girls tend to have an affinity for what they can't have; its a turn-on to have a guy completely ignore you when daddy has been swooning over you since day 1.  Anyway, I really couldn't find anything wrong with my bros logic.  I mean I have employed this technique countless times and been very successful.  It is a rarity when a girl falls for someone who is embarrassingly into her, and while showing someone you like them can work, one must be exceptionally charming to pull this tactic off.  With this in mind, I thought the conversation was over...what else could guys do?

Over the next few days I began to ponder this topic quite a bit.  Slowly, I realized that there was one other way to go about things: just be friendly.  Being genuine with a girl will confuse her to no end.  Forget the lines, drop the flirtation, and don't go out of your way to ignore her.  Just be a chill bro.  You see, all girls are under the impression that we want something from them.  Whether its a serious relationship, casual hook-up, or one night stand girls think we all want something.  Playing the role of the "nice guy" will help to dispel the notion that you want a hook-up from the girl you are talking to.  Doing this will make her wonder what the hell she is doing wrong.  Her thought process will go something like this:

babe: "Ok, so when are guys actually friendly?  Why isn't he hitting on me, or playing hard to get?  I'm gonna have to pursue this a little harder than I thought."

By being the nice guy, you turn the tables.  Girls have trouble responding to this approach.  Inevitably, they will begin to think of you as an enigma.  You will become an unsolved mystery.  In order to solve the mystery, babes will do anything to get your attention.  From forward lines, to casual and yet sexual physical contact, women will try it all.  Once they begin doing this, the ball is in your court.  At this point, you can begin to pursue them openly.  By playing the nice guy, you force a girl to give you a chance.  They will open the door to you...and once its open, its your job to step inside.